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As an admirer of @Bubblegumbutt for his daring public scenes, I asked him if he could write an article that he could share to readers about having fun in public without getting caught. This article he had written offers so many insights and helpful advice. I highly recommend reading this piece before venturing on your next public play. 




In this guide I’ll be giving you a list of things to keep in mind when you’re planning on getting naked in a public setting. I’ll mostly be presupposing that you’ll be getting completely naked, so if you’re just thinking of jerking off with the rest of your clothes still on, then the process will be much simpler for you and might not require as much forethought. I put together this list based on my personal experience, as well as by learning from other exhibitionists on Twitter.

Lastly, my intention when engaging in public nudity is to avoid getting seen by others directly or getting caught, which is the main intent behind most of the points on this list. Exhibitionism is a huge turn on for me, but mostly from the feeling of being naked out in the open, where we’re usually restricted by clothes. There is of course the thrill of getting caught, but I wouldn’t ever want to push my own sexuality on a stranger who does not consent to seeing me engage in sexual activity. Hope this helps you explore your nudist side safely and responsibly!


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Whenever you go out for a walk, bike ride, or when you’re driving, keep an eye out for areas that aren’t very highly populated.

There are areas that are right next to highly trafficked places that will be pretty much completely empty, or that are out of commuters’ common line of sight. Some examples are back alleys, small streets that don’t get a lot of passersby, or even small areas in public parks. There’s also some very open public areas that might be really busy at certain times of the day, but completely empty at other times.

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Once you’ve found a spot that seems viable, make sure to scout the area. Familiarise yourself a bit with the surroundings as well. If possible, go there at different times of the day, noticing when people pass by there most often. Keep an eye out for every place that a person would see you from if they were passing by (and where they Wouldn’t see you). If you’re by a business, look for where their cameras are.

Try to think about alternate routes that you could take to get away from that location if you got caught. If there’s only one way to get in and out of that location, it’s riskier to get caught because you won’t have an escape route. Speaking of escape routes, depending on how you got to your chosen location, yo u might want to park your vehicle out of sight. If you get caught by someone who cares enough to report you to the police, (or if you’re caught by security cameras), you don’t want them to be able to see your license plates, or if you have a distinct looking bike. 



As previously mentioned, if you’re going to engage in public nudity by or in a business, you want to keep an eye out for security cameras. Depending on the business, some security cameras are just for show. Some are only meant to record video and won’t get looked at by anyone unless they’re specifically looking for activity that already happened the night before. Some cameras are being actively monitored by security, and some cameras will notify a business owner to their phone if they catch movement, and the owner will be able to see you in real time from their phone. It’s important to keep all of these possibilities in mind to help you weigh the risks and build a good strategy around them.

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Part of what makes public nudity risky is not just getting caught, but WHO might catch you. Depending on the particular place or your general area, some people will be more conservative than others. If you’re caught close to family venues (like schools or parks), a mama bear won’t hesitate to call the cops. Even worse, if someone is self-righteous enough, they may even try to confront you themselves. It’s safer to do it somewhere where you’re pretty sure most people will be too lazy or unbothered to call the cops or make a big deal about it. Some people will literally just pass you by and just ignore you. Especially if you’re by a road where people only drive by, people are less likely to literally stop their car just to point their finger at you.


Ironically when planning on going streaking, it helps to think about what you’re going to wear when you’re out. It’s harder to be able to take off all your clothes in public quickly if you’re wearing a button up with tight jeans and a belt. Worse yet is trying to put all those clothes back on quickly if you got caught and need to make a getaway. Choose clothes that will be easy to just slip on and off. Like basketball shorts, sweatpants, and just a good old t-shirt or hoodie. Wear shoes that are easy to slip on and off, or are thin enough that you can keep them on when you take off your pants or shorts. If you pick the second option you won’t have to worry about walking around barefoot if the terrain is unsanitary or hazardous. Don’t wear underwear or socks if you don’t have to or unless you’re into it. It’s just another article of clothing to worry about that could just make you waste more time.


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You want to avoid having anything with you that you don’t want to lose if it accidentally falls out of your pocket while you’re taking off your clothes. Make sure that things like your keys, phone, and wallet are secure in a designated pocket, or inside a backpack if you bring one. Another thing you could keep in a backpack is a dildo. You can prelube your hole while still at home or prelube the dildo and keep it in a Ziploc bag. The Ziploc bag will also be useful for putting the dildo back into after you’ve used it, to make sure you don’t get anything else in your backpack wet. Easier still is to just go out with a butt plug already inserted; just make sure to prelube your hole adequately in case you want to pull it in and out.

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Despite this long list of factors to plan ahead for, the most important of all which they all rely on or are trumped by, is timing.

There are times when the opportunity will just present itself. Suddenly you’re in a half empty train cart with everyone facing their back to you. Or you’re walking home from the bars and there’s no one in this empty parking lot. Sometimes I’ll spend 5 to 10 minutes in an empty public spot just going over my list of factors, and the chance will slip me by because I took too long thinking. When I could have easily stripped, jacked off, and put my clothes back on within that time.

How long is it really gonna take you to whip it out for a quick jackoff before someone even walks by? Even if you strip completely naked and someone sees you, how long would it Actually take for cops to arrive if someone called 911 on you? If there’s security cameras, how long would it take for security to come try to get you?

A lot of it comes down to being able to act quickly. Be quick in taking your clothes off and back on, and have quick reactions and quick thinking when someone approaches. 

Still, try not to be too brash or reckless. 


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Part of the fun of exhibitionism is getting to post it online. If you’re lucky enough to have someone with you who can just record you, that’s usually the best option. With a camera man that’s one less thing for you to worry about, and they’ll be able to take better shots of you from afar and at different angles. It’s also pretty hot to have someone witnessing you in the act and recording it, which helps boost your confidence if you’re nervous, and makes you feel less vulnerable knowing you won’t be alone in case you’re caught.

If you’d rather record your adventure by yourself, here’s some things that you can do. The simplest is to just use your phone from your hand selfie style. The drawback to this method is that depending on where you are you might not be able to show so clearly the setting that you are in AND your naked body/cock all at the same time. So you’ll have to move the camera around so that you can get your body in from different angles in the location, and also pan the camera around so that viewers can get a sense of where you are and who else might be around.

The second option is to lay your phone down somewhere either on the ground or on top of something so that you can walk out a bit more and this way you can be fully in the frame and the viewer can see your whole body in the setting. For this option you’ll need something to recline your phone against, so it’s easier when you have some kind of phone accessory that lets you stand your phone up on its own.

Sometimes you’ll find that you’ll end up wasting a lot of valuable time trying to make your phone stay up in a good angle, so something I’ve found to be very useful is that you can get small tripods that are roughly the size of an adult hand, which is extremely portable and could even fit in your pocket. This makes it much easier to just pull it out and set up your phone, and not have to worry about finding a brick or rock to recline your phone on. Furthermore, if you specifically like exhibitionism in venues like public bathrooms, there are small phone stands that are meant to be used for car windows for when you’re driving, and these are really useful because they have a suction cup that works on smooth surfaces. The better the quality you get for these the better because if they’re really cheap they won’t stick to certain materials, such as the type of plastic that bathroom stalls are made of. These are especially cool because since they can be attached to walls you can get creative with the angle that you set up your camera, so you can do POV from above or from below. I usually just use this instead of a tripod because even if I can’t attach it to any surfaces of whatever location I’m on, even if I just set it on the ground the stand gives my phone enough stability that I can get a good angle from the ground or just setting it on top of a car hood or trash can.

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Another cool trick that I learned recently is if you have a bike, you can get bike attachments that let you strap your phone to the bike’s handle so you can have it in front of you while riding. This allows your bike to essentially function as your tripod, and it makes things so easy because you never have to take your phone off your bike.

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Keep your eyes and ears open from all of your surroundings but especially from the places people come and go by the most. Try to notice the rhythm at which people pass by; sometimes you can even average the time from one person walking by to when the next will come just by counting in your head. This will help you average how much time you have to work with, and if it’s enough to go through with or not. Lay your clothes in a way that’s going to make it easy for you to put them back on quickly.


I hope this was helpful or interesting for you! Thank you for reading all the way through, and if you have any tips of your own I’d love to hear them! You can find me on Twitter at where you can also see clips from some of my exhibitionist escapades.

If you want to see some of my Full Length exhibitionist videos, along with my other amateur porn videos, you can find them at: 

Lastly a huuuuge thank you to my hero Cagedjock for letting me share my kink on his platform! You’re an inspiration!


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The question I get the most from my followers is what type of cages do I recommend for beginners. 

Before I begin, check out this article to find out about getting your measurements.

When it’s time to choose a cage the first thing I look for is the design–I can’t wear an ugly cage, I just can’t… A beautiful fitting cage will make you want to keep it on longer.

I don’t like quirky designs. I have seen a cage that shaped like a dragon, but they look silly. I tend to go for something minimalist with as little components as possible since you want to put it on easily; another feature that I seek is comfort–needless to say, this feature is very important. 

Please keep in mind that is not recommended for first-time chastity users to purchase custom cages as figuring out the measurement is a tedious process and you don’t even know if this is something you want to wear long term. 

Here’s what you can find nowadays in the chastity market:


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I bought a metal version on Amazon because of the simplistic and cool look, little did I knew it is not recommended to get metal on your first try because of its weight and the drag can hurt your private area.

This cage was uncomfortable and in real-life the design looks too chunky too to fit under my pants, the ring was too big, it slipped while I slept; putting it on was a bit confusing because it has 6 components.

I didn’t do a lot of research before getting the CB Series because I didn’t know much about the different types of cages there were in the market.

I continued to do my research to find the right cage–think of it like dating, If at first you didn’t succeed, dust yourself off then try again. Even though it didn’t work for me but some guys told me that they like it so do some research on the measurements to see if it is something you want to get for your first cage.

My second try was the best for me, the Holy Trainer.

I really like the Holy Trainer because it’s aesthetically beautiful and comfortable, it has a built-in lock, so it doesn’t clang against the cage making a sound. This cage has only two main components, so putting it on was super easy. It doesn’t do a good job at preventing pull out though–I learned that if it isn’t a belt then the chances of being able to pull out are pretty high.

If you don’t want a belt then you can get a Prince Albert. Holy Trainer has a version designed for people with a PA, that will definitely prevent pull out. The Holy Trainer costs around $165 USD and while it isn’t a cheap buy, it is a great cage to own.

The Holy Trainer company recently introduced new sizes to accommodate a larger demographic. 

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I have never tried this cage but I have seen a lot of guys rocking them out. It’s good for guys who are uncircumcised since it’s an open design. The big gland allows space for guys with lots of foreskin or guys with a thick dick. They have three sizes: big, small and micro.

Apparently, they advertised that their cages prevent pull out. They have some type of technology that when you wear it the material would mold around your genital and prevents the wearer from cheating. I don’t own this so I’m not certain if it’ll work but give it a try and let me know or get me one and I’ll give you a review. The design looks promising, the only feature I don’t like is the lock. I just hate any cages with a lock hanging on the outside. If they had a built in design then I would totally own one.

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This cage is really good for guys with big dicks. I don’t have any experience with this cage because I don’t have a big dick so this cage wouldn’t fit me. From my observation, most guys like it. If you have a big cock then this cage is a good start for you.



I’ve seen this cock cage a lot on the internet. It’s one of the worst designs because it protrudes and it allows so many erections to happen which defeats the purpose of wearing a chastity cage. Just look at the picture. Not to mention it’s ugly. I don’t recommend it to anybody.

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I don’t own this cage, I tried it on once and I hated it. The flaw is the ring. It is way too thick which pushes your balls and cock out in a weird way that will make it super uncomfortable to wear. I don’t recommend this cage to anybody so you don’t need to know the name of the website. My friend who owns it also hates it so it’s a definite no. The people who designed this don’t know anything about anatomy.


Do not get a urethral insert cage for your first cage. There is a specific way for you to clean the tube and learning how to wear it comfortably. If you don’t take care of it well then you can get an infection. On your first cage you will have to learn to get used to the ring, the cage, the night time erections and others, if you add in a urethral insert it would be just too much to handle at once. Only get this feature once you’ve learned to master your first cage.

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Don’t get these beautiful but unpractical designs. They just look stupid to me. I have tried them on, they look silly. I was turned off actually.

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White Boy’s First Chastity

Sub-bottom wanted to play with me. Watch me prepare him for his first chastity session.


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Congratulations! You’ve taken the step to try chastity and the eroticism that it can bring into your sex life – the next step is to properly measure yourself for a chastity cage. 

There are two types of chastity cages – mass produced and custom made. If this is your first time dipping your feet into chastity kink, then I don’t recommend custom-made cages since they are quite an investment; you should only consider this option once you have had enough experience with this fetish.

The mass market has plenty of cages and designs; for instance, the CB Series, which are the most popular (but uncomfortable), or the HolyTrainer, which is the one I own. Because manufacturers produce these cages in mass quantities, chances are the cage you’ll get won’t fit you precisely, and that is totally understandable – it can be a little off and will still work just fine, so don’t worry.

When choosing a chastity cage, it’s very important to take your time in order to capture the correct measurements, otherwise the cage can cause discomfort. A chastity cage typically has a few major parts:  

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  1. The ring (like a cock ring)
  2. The length of the tube (corresponds to the length of your soft dick)
  3. The inside diameter of the tube (corresponds to the girth of your penis)
  4. The gap between the ring and the tube


Your ring measurement is very important, because if it’s too loose, the cage won’t stay on; if it’s too tight, you’ll cut off your circulation, and it could also make it difficult to urinate. 

To get the most accurate measurement, you will need thread or string that measures about 12 inches; in order to get an accurate measurement, the string should be a type that doesn’t stretch. Use white thread or string so you can mark on it; if you use black thread or string, you won’t be able to see ink marks. The thickness of the string is also important – it shouldn’t be too thin and it shouldn’t be too thick. 

I would recommend choosing something similar to the thickness of the cage’s ring itself, and a round string is more accurate than a flat string. Do not use measuring tape because the tape is flat and bulky and will make it difficult to get an accurate measurement.

Wrap the string around your balls and penis, similar to wearing a cock ring – make a slight double-knot. Place your pinkie finger under the string; if you can slide your pinkie in easily, then it’s too loose.If you have difficulty sliding it in, then it’s too tight. It should feel just right, tight enough so that it doesn’t slip off and loose enough for blood flow. The string should feel comfortable and it should allow your urine to exit the urethra. 

Now close the knot. 

Now, while wearing the string, go back to doing regular activities such as cooking, walking, sitting, pushups, etc. Don’t just stand there and wait. The act of doing an activity will relax your mind – if you focus on the string, your balls will tighten and you could get an erection that will mess up your measurement.Take a mental note of how you’re feeling: “Is it too tight? Too loose? Does it cut off circulation? Does it feel fine?” Look at the color of your balls and dick: “Do I see a change of color? Can I piss just fine?” Use your judgement and adjust the string accordingly. 

After 15 minutes of wearing the string, mark the spot on the string at the knot to record the length, and untie. Take note of the measurement – you can also cut the string with a pair of scissors. 

When you are ready, do the entire measurement again using the technique above but with a different string. If you don’t have an extra string then use a different colored pen to mark the spot. Wait for a couple of hours to measure again because, depending on where you live the temperature may vary during the course of the day, which can have an effect on your size. 

Repeat this method over the next few days. Yes, days. Why? Because your genitals on a hot day will be different than on a cold day. 

Gather your measurements, then average them out. When finished, this will be the circumference of the ring. You can use the circumference to get the diameter.  

There are two types of rings: round and oval. Oval will be more comfortable since it will offer a bit more space underneath to accommodate the hanging of your testicles and spermatic cords. Also take into consideration the materials, plastic vs metal. Plastic is lighter while metal is heavier – I recommend plastic for beginners. 

Since your first cage won’t be custom made, you will have to settle with what the manufacturers offer. If your measurement falls between two ring sizes, it is best to order the two rings as you figure out what size is best for you, and this will save you shipping charges. Some people prefer wearing a tighter ring, while others prefer wearing a bigger ring, so it’s good to have both. On a cold day, as the penis tightens up you can use your bigger ring. On a warmer day when your penis is hanging down, you can use your smaller ring. For first-timers, the confinement feeling can be very awkward to embrace, so a bigger ring makes it less frustrating. As you get used to the feeling and your mind starts to embrace the mentality of chastity play, you most likely will prefer the smaller ring. 


This is a bit less complicated than the ring size, but I need to reiterate the fact that you cannot measure your dick when hard – it defeats the purpose of chastity play, it isn’t a size contest. Do not get a cage with enough space to accommodate your hard-ons; the whole point of chastity play is to suppress your erections and give the control to your partner. 

Since the penis can shrink and expand significantly depending on the temperature or the situation, there are a couple of things you need to keep in mind:

  1. Don’t measure right after a shower or swimming; wait for 1 to 1.5 hours, then you can proceed.
  2. Take measurements at different times of day then average them out; measuring at room temperature is best. 
  3. Put your ego away – you must be 100% flaccid. Measure when you’re at your smallest and please don’t lie to yourself.
  4. Know the difference between soft vs shriveled; you should know your usual smallest stage. 
  5. It doesn’t have to be 100% accurate. You can be a bit off and it should be fine.  
  6. After you have averaged your measurements and get the final number, subtract between 1/4 and 1/2 inches to make it snug; trust me, it feels good when it’s a bit snug. This might sound weird, but smaller tubes are more comfortable.

The act of measuring can get you aroused, which can mess up your measurement. Think of something not sexy. Play classical music, do something you don’t find sexual, imagine Donald Trump fucking you or something.

When taking the measurement of the tube, do not sit down, stand up straight. Place the edge of the ruler against the base of your penis and lay it flat on the top of your penis. To prevent any belly fat from getting in the way and messing up your measurement, press the ruler firmly against your pubic bone. The number you’re looking for should record the length starting from the pelvis to the tip of the penis. 


This is the girth of your cock when soft. 100% flaccid. This is the easiest measurement.

Take a string and wrap it around the midpoint of your cock; do it a few times until you’re comfortable you got the right measurement. Average them out to get the final number; that will be your circumference. Use Google to calculate the diameter from the circumference measurement.


The gap is the space between the ring and the opening of the tube. 

If you have high and tight balls then the gap should be wider to accommodate the extra skin. If you have low hanging balls then you will need a smaller gap. The smaller gap is also good if you have small balls since the gap prevents your balls from slipping. 

Your gap space can change if you practice chastity play on a regular basis because the cage will stretch the skin; as time goes by, there will come a day when you’ll need a cage with a smaller gap. 

Since your first cage won’t be custom made, look at the design of the cage you want to purchase and ask yourself if the gap is good enough for your testicles. 


The color of your cage can have an effect on your mind. For example:

Black is sexy because it conceals everything – it’s frustrating not to be able to see your own cock. 

Clear is hot because you can see it but you can’t play with it. 

Pink is a sissy color that reminds you of your place in the Dom/Sub relationship. 


There are two types of locks – one with the lock hanging and the other one with an integrated lock. 

The Holy Trainer has an integrated lock that won’t bang when you walk, while the CB Series and other devices have a hanging lock. If you’re bothered by the sound of the lock flicking against the cage, you can use a rubber band to hold it together. 


A properly fitting cage should hug the penis like a glove. Your cock should touch all sides and the tip of the cage. The urethra should align with the opening for easy urination, and chances are you will have to sit down to pee. Enjoy the humiliation it brings.  

Get a cage that is close to the diameter of your penis; as for the length make sure to subtract 1/4 inches to 1/2 inches of the actual flaccid penis length, and a shorter cage fits better and is more comfortable, as long as it isn’t too short. 

It’ll take your body about 2 weeks to get used to the device; the body is very adaptive to changes so give it time. 

You must shave smooth or the cage will pull the hair, and you must moisturize with either natural nut oils or my very own body cream with my own formula that retains moisture longer than typical lotion. Don’t use lube or chemical products; what I’ve noticed about lotions is that they dry really fast. Wearing a cage that isn’t lubricated is like a car with no oil. 

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Chances are you will not get the perfect-fitting cage on your first try. Don’t let this deter you from discovering the joy of chastity fetish and enjoying the benefits that it can bring. Finding the right cage is like dating. Just because the first few dates didn’t work doesn’t mean you should give up finding your Prince Charming. Also, if you end up getting the wrong cage, don’t throw it away. Add the cage to your own collection so you can play with your fuck buddy who wants to experience chastity play.


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I love fisting. It’s so erotic. There’s something about having an entire fist inside that not only drives me crazy physically but mentally.

I started fisting since 2015. I have seen the point of view of both being a fister and a fistee. I know a lot of you who are interested in learning how to fist but don’t know the technique of doing it so I’ve decided to put together this fisting tutorial. My advice to you is to read the entire article word to word, do not skim through and do not skip any section.

This tutorial is only for anal fisting. I have never fisted a vagina so I don’t have any experience with it. I would love to try it though. I think I’d be excellent at it.


The passion has to be mutual, meaning the top has to want to fist and the bottom has to want to get fisted. I have failed to get my fist in many times. I thought that’s because I’m not experienced enough but looking back, 98% of my failed attempts were because the bottom didn’t want to get fisted, despite my experience. I have learned an important lesson that the success rate is higher when both parties mutually want it.


1) TIME:

Schedule a time so both of you can relax. That means you have nothing on the agenda: no dinner dates, no work, no appointment of any kind, nothing. Fisting can be intense and stressful because you’re taking a fist after all. You have to free the mind from any kind of worries. Pick a weekend night where you both could dedicate the entire time for fisting and not having to worry about running late to go somewhere.



* Make sure your ass is smooth or the hair will pull. Don’t even attempt to get fisted with a hairy hole. If you can’t shave your own hole then have your partner do it for you. If he’s not into shaving you then he isn’t man enough to fist you. Tell him to get the fuck out. Fisting isn’t for sissies.

* Douche very deep. If you’re stressed that you’ll shit on his hand then you won’t be able to relax. Take Fiber pills every day for one week before your fisting date. You’ll be so confident with your clean hole. Don’t eat greasy food. Eat lots of veggies. It’s best not to attempt fisting spontaneously without preparation.


* Trim your nails very short. I have had tops who didn’t trim their nails and attempted to fist me. It felt like knives cutting my insides. It is most helpful if you trim your nails one day before your fisting date since freshly trimmed nails tend to be sharper. If not, just make sure to file your nails before play, you should be fine.

* If your hand is hairy then shave. It’ll get in easier or wear gloves if you don’t wanna shave.

* Clean under your nails with soap. You don’t wanna put bacterias inside your partner. Wear gloves if you want which brings us to the next topic: Gloves.


You don’t have to use gloves but it is recommended because the hands can have lots of bacterias which you don’t want to put into the body of your partner. Vice versa, the rectum has lots of bacterias which you don’t want on your hands. Go to the convenient store and get those thin gloves that doctors use. You don’t want to use thick fisting gloves because you don’t want to add thickness to your hand. This is your first attempt after all. I like black gloves cause it’s sexier.

Keep in mind that gloves can add friction which can potentially add difficulties to getting your fist in. It’s a piece of advice that I want to inform you. I have done fisting with just bare hands many times. If you’re doing it with bare hands then make sure you shave. A smooth hand will go in better.


Most people use Xlube, J Lube, or K lube. These lubes come in the form of a powder that you have to mix with water. Why? Because you can control the outcome of the lube. You can make it watery or densed, however you want it to be. It’s also cheaper than regular lube that you use for penetration. In fisting, you will need lots of lube. Also, X lube, J lube and K lube are more slippery. The best lube, in my opinion, is X Lube because it has the best consistency and it mixes really nice. It doesn’t create chunks like J Lube. My verdict: go with X Lube.


To store your lube I would recommend one of those soap bottles with a sports tip. You don’t want to invest in a fisting lube bottle because it can be hard to clean the inside. Bacterias build-up isn’t ideal for anything going inside your body. The cheap soap bottles can be easily replaced after you’ve used it for dishes. This way you’ll always have a fresh bottle to play. A water bottle with a sports tip is also fine, choose something sturdy or your lube will spill. Make sure you choose a decent size bottle that holds to about 24 FL OZ. Do not choose a tiny bottle. Remember: YOU WILL NEED A LOT OF LUBE!


I don’t have a strict recipe to mix the lube but I know two ways for you to do it.

WAY #1:

This way is fine if you don’t want to use a blender or you’re traveling and don’t have a blender with you

Fill the bottle with warm water. Don’t fill it to the top. Leave space for powder. Do not use cold water or it won’t melt.

Add a little bit, shake it. Add more, shake it. Add a little more and shake it. You don’t want to add a whole bunch at once because once the powder gets inside the water it’ll create a little shield that protects the inner core and you’ll end up with a bunch of little chunks of powder that won’t melt.

Squeeze the lube onto your hands. Rub it. If it dries too quickly then you need to add more powder. You will know that the lube is ready when you rub it against your hands and after a minute it’s still slippery. I can’t be there to teach you so you have to use your instinct. Choose what you’ll think is best for your body. You won’t perfect it with your first attempt. Keep doing it.

WAY #2:

Some people have a blender that is specifically for fisting. Don’t use it to make your protein shakes. Only for fisting. The blender will mix the powder better. I only recommend this technique if you’ve done enough fisting and want to reserve the entire blender for fisting lube. Don’t get a huge blender. Just get one that holds about the same amount of your bottle.


The following ingredients can be added to your lube but not a must. I learned it from my friend Maus (Twitter @Sherman_maus):

THIS IS VERY IMPORTANT TO REMEMBER: only use high-grade therapeutic essential oil. Some essential oils are made very cheaply and are not made to be used internally! Don’t be cheap when it comes to anything that goes inside your body.

* Eucalyptus – 1 drop. For a pleasant scent.

* Lavender – 1 drop. For a pleasant scent.

* Peppermint – 1 drop. Cooling effect. Relaxes the muscle.

* Tea tree oil – 1 drop. It helps make the lube last longer.

* Clove – 4 drops. Relaxes the muscle.

Google: AURA CACIA DISCOVER ESSENTIAL OILS KIT. I believe it’ll come with: Eucalyptus, Lavender, Peppermint and Tea Tree oil.

Aspercreme: do not add it into the lube. Just rub it around your hole. It numbs your muscle.

Ibuprofen – Take orally 400-600 mg so that you don’t feel sore. This is good if you want to play longer. I’m talking about 4+ hours.


It’ll get messy. The amount of lube, the precum, and depends on the anatomy but some bottoms can piss uncontrollably when their bladder is being played with. Wee wee pads will absorb the fluid so piss won’t soak into your bed. You can also get one of those rubber sheets for your mattress. A cheap way for you to do it is to get a big trash bag, cut it open so you can expand the size, place towels above, this way you will get a big area on your bed to play.

Bottoms, if you piss that’s totally normal. Don’t be embarrassed. I have seen it happens way too many times to count.

Tops, if your bottom pisses, deal with it and take it like a man. If you’re easily grossed out just remember fisting is for real men.

Remember you’re playing with an ass. If the bottom slightly shat on your hand then both of you go wash up and continue. Don’t be pussies.



Don’t jump immediately into fisting. Take time to foreplay. Not only it’ll turn the bottom on but also relaxes the body. I don’t know why lots of people skip foreplay.


Before attempting to fist, open him up with toys and your dick. Get dildos, plugs, etc. Playing with it not only relaxes his hole but also opening up his insides. You don’t want his intestines to block your hand. Proceed to fuck him and loosen his hole. Do not rush. Keep teasing him, make him hunger for your fist to expand his hole.


The bottom gets to decide the position: on his back, on his stomach, on the sling, squatting on the top’s hand while he’s laying down, etc.

The first time I got fisted I was on my stomach so I thought that is the best position for me. Later on, I learned that it’s best when I am on my back. So my advice to you is to try all the positions and choose what’s best for your body.


I’m appalled that many articles don’t mention it in their fisting advice as this is the biggest issue that prevents the hand from going in. The tailbone is located in our buttocks area. Basically, remember this rule: if your knuckles touch the tailbone then you’re doing it wrong. You want to make sure the tailbone goes inside your palm so face your knuckles away from the tailbone.

It’s very simple. If you’re laying on your stomach or on your knees, your tailbone would be facing up, that means your palm has to face up.

If you’re laying on your back, the tailbone would be down. That means your palm should be facing down.

The reasons you see in porn videos with the top fisting the bottom in every hand position are because:

1) The warm-up scenes had been edited out

2) The bottom is a pro (aka loose)

3) Porn isn’t reality


If the body is tensed, his hole won’t open. Send a good signal to his brain by kissing his body. Depending on the position that he’s laying, if he’s facing up, kiss his lips, nipples, chest, stomach, legs, etc. If he’s facing down, kiss his back, shoulder, etc.

Take note of this technique, it’s very important: Apply slight pressure on his body by putting one arm on him or embrace him. This act will send a signal to his body indicating that it’s being protected and it will make his hole very relaxed.

The body contact and the kissing will distract him from concentrating on his hole.

Play with his prostate during the process of fingering. Massage it. Again, make him feel good.


Repeat after me: slight rotation, apply pressure. Slight rotation, apply pressure. Slight rotation, apply pressure. Slight rotation, apply pressure. Slight rotation, apply pressure. Slight rotation, apply pressure. Slight rotation, apply pressure. Slight rotation, apply pressure. Slight rotation, apply pressure. Slight rotation, apply pressure. Slight rotation, apply pressure. Slight rotation, apply pressure. Slight rotation, apply pressure. Slight rotation, apply pressure.

After your warm-up session, he’ll be a bit loose so you can start with two fingers. Apply pressure, rotate, then pull out. When pulling out you need to spread your fingers, this way you’ll open up the muscles. Do this until you feel like he’s ready and proceed with three fingers. Remember to pull the fingers out, don’t just stay there. You need to allow the muscle to contract and expand. Work your way to four fingers and don’t forget to always rub against his prostate. Once you’re at four fingers your next goal is to keep doing it until your four knuckles are all in. Take your fingers out, don’t forget to spread them. Do it again and again until the act of taking four fingers become easier and easier. Surprise him by putting your thumb in. Do not say “Ready? I’m going in”. Avoid telling him that because, if you do, his body will put on a defense mode and he will tense up.

At this stage, the rotating movement should be similar to that of nudging. Imagine putting on a tight but fragile sweater. You want to nudge your body into the sweater without damaging it.

For the top: apply pressure while you’re rotating and avoid the tailbone.

For the bottom: breathe and relax. I know it’ll be difficult to relax but if you tense up it’ll make it very difficult. Breathe, relax and push! Push like your baby is about to come out while using your hands and pull your cheeks. It’ll help a lot for the hand to go in. Trust me. PULL YOUR ASS CHEEKS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

For the top: use your fingertips to “read” his inside. You want your fingers to follow the opening of his rectum. Don’t go against it or you’ll tear fragile tissues. Once your entire fist is inside, stay there so he can get himself together. Kiss him, compliment him and whisper in his ears how proud you are of him while slightly fisting him. Even when you’re already inside, don’t forget to use your fist to rub over his prostate. Do not attempt with depth play. This is your first time!


Punch fist is when you’re fisting while you hold your hand in the form like you’re about to punch someone.

The first time fisting you shouldn’t attempt to punch fist coz it can be a bit too much. However, if you really want to do it just make sure you put your thumb inside your palm to avoid your thumb from tearing any tissues.

I love it when the top closes his hand and pulls out. The extra girth makes me orgasms like crazy.

During fisting, there can be blood. If it’s just a little then it’s fine. If it’s too much then you should stop. But everybody reacts differently. I once fisted a bottom and there was so much blood but he went to the bathroom and after that it was fine. Just listen to your body.

After you’ve done fisting, needless to say, but the top needs to wash his hands thoroughly with soap and the bottom needs to douche his inside to wash out any bacterias that the hand just puts in.


Communicate with each other when there are pain and discomfort. Listen to the bottom. No means no. This is not the right time for safe-word/rape scene scenarios. Full stop if necessary. Do it again next time. The world won’t end tomorrow.

Congratulation, you’ve learned the art of fisting! Your next step is to perfect it through practice.

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